There is a chat circulating on social media of a lady who allegedly dumped her boyfriend refusing Lobola payment in bond notes demanding that the boyfriend pays for her Lobola in Rands.
The chat which was posted on Facebook in Gossip Mill Zimbabwe group shows the conversation between the two as the girl makes demands about what she wants for the traditional wedding and the requirements for the Lobola negotiations.
The girlfriend clearly told the boyfriend identified as Kuda in the chat to pay for her Lobola using the 25 000 Rands he had previously said that he has and buy groceries, stating the Lobola negotiations on behalf of her parents.
Below is the chat
[24/04, 19:56] 💕husbae💋: So nyaya yavepo apa mari yeroora achauya ari ma rands + bond kana vasingadi havo vanongotaura coz I have done all I can to raise forex but kwane ma rates uku ama 1
[24/04, 19:58] 💕husbae💋: After marriage yacho uchada kudya +kupfeka +muchato so you and me we have to be real to each other
[24/04, 19:58] meloo😘: Bond😳
[24/04, 19:59] meloo😘: Bond tengesa grocery nd cum nema rands auinawo iwayo
[24/04, 19:59] meloo😘: Hnty u hv 25000rands here
[24/04, 19:59] 💕husbae💋: Asingade anongoregedza I’m being paid rtgs and I can’t keep on chasing ma rates
[24/04, 20:01] 💕husbae💋: And I have just decided to be real on my own I can’t push hard kuzvinhu zvandikutadza. ..after all there is life after marriage
[24/04, 20:01] meloo😘: Iwewe u want kuroora uchipedza here? Cum ne iyoyo bhoo but nt bond
[24/04, 20:02] 💕husbae💋: So vana baba vako kana vasingadi ma bond +rands I have nothing I can do
[24/04, 20:02] meloo😘: Oh ana baba vangu ndovawakuda kupa ma bond manje?
[24/04, 20:03] 💕husbae💋: It is not in your place to decide. .inyaya dzanababa nemunyai wangue I live in Zimbabwe and I don’t earn forex
[24/04, 20:04] meloo😘: Kana pasina mari yacho kuda kaa to be honest with you ngatingozviregai zvekuroorana zvacho…. Coz i dont see where yo problem is…. Yu said u hv 25k rands chii chikunetsa ungouya neiyoyo thn buy grocery rasara wth the bonds
[24/04, 20:05] 💕husbae💋: Kana usiri kuda cut off the marriage wakasunguka I can’t force myself to what I can’t do. .economy is hard then you want to force mie on forex no things don’t work that way
[24/04, 20:05] meloo😘: And akuroorwa wacho ndiani??? I yu marrying my fathers or me??? Do you knw them??? Do you live with them??? So kana ndichikuudza kuti bond no usandiitise nharo
[24/04, 20:06] 💕husbae💋: Munyai wangu ndiye achaziya zvekuita then vana baba vako kana varamba tosiira ipapo
[24/04, 20:06] meloo😘: Bhoo u can inform my aunty tht marriage cancelled
[24/04, 20:07] meloo😘: You are nt getting married to my fathers??? Unodakuita nharo neni vakakuudza kuti vanoda bond?
[24/04, 20:07] 💕husbae💋: Worry not vana baba vako ndivo vacha officialisa through kuramba ma ranks edu nema bond edu. ..not you dearest
[24/04, 20:08] meloo😘: Kana mafunga kuchinja pfungwa dzenyu… Makurwadziwa ne mari yenyu keep it u aint being forced here
[24/04, 20:08] meloo😘: I dont want to get married kaa haundiudze zvana baba vangu if ts bond u better nt come hako ungazonyara
[24/04, 20:09] 💕husbae💋: Mari ndoyandisina I’m not rich + I don’t come from a rich background. ..I’m doing all i can and kana vasingade mari yangue vachangoiramba in a way that is done pashona not iwewe
[24/04, 20:10] meloo😘: So u think i dont have a say in this???? Is tht wat u thnk here ndikuratidze kuti i got all the powers in my hands
[24/04, 20:12] meloo😘: Kana vakakuudza kuti they aint going to charge u much doesnt mean they will accept bonds…. Imari here…. Ototi waroora wth bonds…. I rather nt get married thn get married wth bonds…. If thts wat u hv decided to come wth bonds ndogara ndavaudza vasaunganire mahara…. Ana baba vasa waste their bussfares kuuya kuzounganira ma bond
[24/04, 20:13] 💕husbae💋: No worries tonyarei as if ndine mugodhi we forrex we just accept kuti vanatezvara varamba mari yangue then freely move onn
[24/04, 20:14] meloo😘: Chikukunetsa chii if yu are really srs wth this unouya ne 18k rands dzaukuti unadzo nt zvima bond izvo tengesai chingwa bond hariroore handina kuchengetwa ne bond ini….. Unless mukutonyepa kuti mune 25k yacho
[24/04, 20:15] 💕husbae💋: For your information wat you should be worried with is your life after marriage. .show some focus not to be glued on kuda kunzi wakaroorwa nema us or pounds
[24/04, 20:15] meloo😘: Yu do nt evn hve to cum kuti izorambwa gara watorega hako cz no one in my family achaunganira bond…. They will nt come trust me
[24/04, 20:16] 💕husbae💋: Manje mulutoratidza kuti focus dololo and it’s scary
[24/04, 20:17] meloo😘: Ts nt about kuti ndakaroorwa nechii or wat…… Am not worth bonds…. I wasnt raised wth bonds…. Ma bond munonoroora ma grade 7 not me… Akatizira arinani pane kuroorwa ne bond cz zvakangofanana nemunhu asina kuroorwa
[24/04, 20:17] meloo😘: Think wat u want bt am being real
[24/04, 20:19] 💕husbae💋: It’s not in your position to tell me what to come with. ..don’t act or talk as if ukuzviroora kaa. .besides ana baba wako nemunyai wangue will discuss these things not kuti iwewe ude kutotitungamira things don’t work that way
[24/04, 20:19] meloo😘: Fo yo own infor both my families vakatoti bond no….. Ndikatoti he isnt coming wth bond hake….. So if t has changed will just inform thm no need kuungana nd no need to waste usd buying machira ekuti vazopihwa bond hahaha xaaa dont insult me
[24/04, 20:20] 💕husbae💋: Yaa uchine ka blind eye when it comes to real life issues. .you are still growing hopefully you will change
[24/04, 20:20] meloo😘: Its me who is getting married note tht….. Vakatondiudza kare no bond cz they knw am in the right position to inform u tht…..
[24/04, 20:21] meloo😘: Mark my words bond yu wont be marrying me hako
[24/04, 20:21] 💕husbae💋: Don’t worry ndobasa remunyai wangue to negotiate
[24/04, 20:21] meloo😘: U rather come ne 10us thn kundiroora ne bond???
[24/04, 20:21] meloo😘: Achi negotiate nani kana ndaramba kuroorwa kwacho?
[24/04, 20:22] 💕husbae💋: Mari yedu yatikuda kuuya nayo it’s for us to decide not you
[24/04, 20:22] meloo😘: Kana riri bond tsvaga mumwe wekuroora anoda kuroorwa ne bond not me
[24/04, 20:24] meloo😘: My friend yu are nt going to buy a doll or a pet yauno dectator zvaunoda i have 100% right yekukuudza kuti handidi bond cz its me who is getting married there is no way u are going to force me into this if i just tell my family i dont want u thnk they will accept yo money???
[24/04, 20:29] 💕husbae💋: You won’t be the first one kuramba kuroorwa hazvishamisire it’s part and parcel of natural life
[24/04, 20:29] 💕husbae💋: Worry not you are still in a position to make your choice when I send munyai wangue I’m sure they will hint you then woramba kana uchiramba
[24/04, 20:29] meloo😘: Good u knw tht
[24/04, 20:29] meloo😘: Ndagara ndatoramba
[24/04, 20:29] meloo😘: Don wrry let me tell my aunty now
[24/04, 20:30] 💕husbae💋: Hantina chandotya pa family yako ini. ..we come with what I can afford then kana zvaramv
[24/04, 20:30] meloo😘: Dont come hako
[24/04, 20:30] meloo😘: Chengeta yo bonds
[24/04, 20:31] 💕husbae💋: #then kana zvarambwa life goes onn dearest …
[24/04, 20:32] meloo😘: Do u thnk am worth those useless bonds
[24/04, 20:32] 💕husbae💋: Worry not panouya munyai wangue munongomuudza izvozvo then towana pekutangira
[24/04, 20:33] meloo😘: Achiuya kupi munyai wako
[24/04, 20:34] meloo😘: Find someone worth yo bonds not me
[24/04, 20:34] 💕husbae💋: Swallow your pride you still have a long way to go. .and those bonds andinenge ndawana ndinenge ndatomashandirawo semurombo
[24/04, 20:35] meloo😘: Ini zve marriage zv
acho ngazvigare handina kwekumhanyira