Marriage on the Rocks Due to Lack of Bedroom Action
"She slaps and pinches me if I try to make advances, which always turns me off" - Moses Nyakudya, husband
Marriage on the Rocks Due to Lack of Bedroom Action
A Harare couple’s unusual bedroom arrangement, involving sexual relations only once a year, has landed them in court, with the wife seeking a protection order against her husband, claiming abuse and humiliation.
Fortunate Muchenje sought the protection order against her husband, Moses Nyakudya, which was granted by magistrate Meenal Naratom.
The case has brought to light the couple’s strained relationship and allegations of marital discord.
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Nyakudya, in his defence, expressed his dissatisfaction with the infrequency of their sexual encounters. He said:
I am a human being and l need to have sex with my wife but she only gives me when she feels like it.
He further claimed that his wife’s resistance to his advances often turns him off.
She slaps and pinches me if I try to make advances, which always turns me off.
Despite their issues, Nyakudya maintained his affection for his wife, stating, “My wish is for us to live in peace with my wife, l love her.”
Muchenje, however, painted a different picture of their marriage, alleging that her husband’s abusive behaviour is the reason for her reluctance to engage in sexual relations.
Marriage on the Rocks Due to Lack of Bedroom Action
Moses does not respect me and that is the reason why l deny him sex.
She accused her husband of discussing their private matters with neighbours, including intimate details about their bedroom life.
He discusses me with our neighbours, telling them that l am not good in bed.
Muchenje recounted a recent incident where she did engage in sexual intercourse with her husband, only to be met with insults and humiliation afterwards.
“Recently I had sex with…after sex, he started shouting insulting me, l felt humiliated,” she said.
Adding to the already bizarre situation, Muchenje accused her husband of making outlandish accusations, including suggesting she was having sexual relations with her own father.
“My husband even accuses me of having sexual intercourse with my father,” she stated.
If I deny him sex, he says my father is using me for juju.
Muchenje claimed she lives in constant fear and has no peace in her home.
“I no longer have peace in the house as he is abusing me. Each time I hear people laughing, l feel like they will be laughing at me since my husband shares our bedroom secrets,” she said.
