Struggles of Zimbabwean Husbands in the UK
The phrase “I brought you here!” has become a regular refrain within the Zimbabwean diaspora community
Struggles of Zimbabwean Husbands in the UK
In the world of Zimbabwean diaspora, a new term has emerged to describe a certain group of men who have migrated to the UK on spouse visas – ‘Ma broughtie’ or ‘Ma broti.’
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This term, often used by Zimbabwean women, carries a derogatory undertone, highlighting the challenges faced by these husbands in their new lives abroad.
The ‘Broughties’ find themselves navigating a complex landscape of cultural adjustments, shifting gender roles, and strained relationships.
The phrase “I brought you here!” has become a regular refrain within the Zimbabwean diaspora community.
It signifies the resentment felt by some wives who expected their husbands to quickly adapt and contribute to the household in their new country.
The wives express their frustrations, questioning the husbands’ daily routines and urging them to take up responsibilities such as picking up the children from school or sharing household chores.
Recognizing the challenges faced by ‘Brotis,’ popular Zimbabwean social media personality @KingJayZIm advises men to “hit the ground running” and secure employment as soon as they arrive in the UK, regardless of their previous professional status.
Taking up any job, even as a bin man or a cleaner, can help restore a sense of dignity and contribute to maintaining a harmonious household.
@KingJayZIm warns against lounging around and becoming too vocal, as it often leads to confrontations and the dreaded reminder of being brought to the UK – “I BROUGHT YOU HERE.”
The transition from the traditional gender roles prevalent in Zimbabwe to the more egalitarian environment in the UK can be jarring for many ‘Broughties.’
The expectation of being greeted with the familiar “Mamuka sei Baba Teddy” is quickly replaced with the reality of being called “Jonso.”
The cultural shock of adjusting to new responsibilities, such as cooking and household chores, can add to the strain on relationships.
Struggles of Zimbabwean Husbands in the UK
King Jay’s Twitter thread captures the humour and struggles faced by ‘Broughties’ as they grapple with their evolving identities and negotiate their place in their new homes.
The issue of gender equivalence in social and economic roles is a significant factor in the challenges faced by ‘Brotis.’
While some men embrace the changing dynamics and adapt to their new circumstances, others resist, leading to strained relationships and potential social consequences.
The Twitter thread, shared by @KingJayZIm, highlights the importance of adjusting to the new reality or facing the repercussions of rejecting the shift.
